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Why Men Lose Interest After Sex

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One mistake commonly made in the relationship between men and women is to start a relationship with the opposite sex on the wrong foundation. To lay a good foundation for joyful relationship partners should start with building friendship and mutual respect. The first few months in a dating relationship is to be used to establish the possibility of becoming friends and to see if it is possible to have respect for one another.

One mistake commonly made in the relationship between men and women is to start a relationship with the opposite sex on the wrong foundation. To lay a good foundation for joyful relationship partners should start with building friendship and mutual respect. The first few months in a dating relationship is to be used to establish the possibility of becoming friends and to see if it is possible to have respect for one another.

There are two angles to the development of a joyful relationship between the sexes. These are the evolvement of:

emotional bonding
physical bonding

To work out well, a relationship need to evolve in the order above - emotional bonding first and then physical bonding second.

What is common today is that people more often than not start with growing the physical bonding.

The right way would to start a dating, courtship and marriage relationship is in the same way you would start a building from the foundation.

Emotional bonding - love and affection - requires the same diggings you would do for a building and the pouring of concrete mixtures with stone such as friendship and mutual respect to erect it. Physical bonding is like the roof of a building. No building can be started on the roof. The roof is the crown of the building. Physical bonding such as is expressed by hugging, necking, kissing and sexual intercourse are like roofs or the crown of the building. When, therefore, physical bonding activity such as sexual intercourse is introduced in a relationship before it has become marriage, it is like starting a building without foundation and pillars and we all know that that is impossible.

In relationship coaching, one of the common points of the bemoaning of women is that they have given their men everything and yet all of a sudden or mysteriously, they lose interest. The most surprising and shocking part of it all for the women is that often, the men turn cold and withdraw after a hot and sizzling sexual intercourse. It is clear that most of the pains and anguish of broken relationships result from loss of virtue more than it is the loss of the partner. Human beings are wont to disregard the importance of virtue in their overall stability, peace of mind and happiness. Experience has though shown that they do so at personal peril.

In the foundation for joyful relationships, love, a key element and the evidence of emotional bonding is not one of the early pillars to be erected in the chain. It comes way behind such foundational elements as friendship, mutual respect, trust, virtue, honor, faith in God and clarity of purpose. Fortuitously, love is the topic of the eighth chapter of the bookFoundation For Joyful Relationships.

The reason men lose interest even after the most exciting sexual intercourse is because, simply put, it was wrong. Premarital sex scuttles the opportunity for a relationship to grow. Contrary to popular opinion, premarital sexual intercourse ruins good relationships.

It is highly recommended that relationship partners should aim to develop and grow such initial essential elements first. As soon as they are in place, genuine love would naturally evolve and it would naturally lead faster to marriage proposal than the hottest sexual encounters you may ever experience.

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